Sexual Satisfaction

One of the many questions that found its place in my head when I was in the salon...

What does it mean when someone tells you you're good in bed?

For the guys, does it have to do with his stamina or the way he works his fingers and his mouth? For a girl, is it all about the 'job'? How much 'thrusting' she can take or how hard-on she can get you? Is it all down to the cums? Or is fantastic foreplay enough to satisfy? Perhaps it's how or what one feels in the whole after a...mind my language here...a fuck?

Ironically I picked up The Star and came across an article about Vasthu Sastra (science of dwelling) and according to it sexual satisfaction is between two partners, not between two genital organs. Does not happen immediately but grows and develops over time. The first step one has to do is to avoid hopping from one bed to another to seek improved pleasure. Moreover, individuals who wish to enjoy the pleasures of sex should sleep on their left side, with their heads pointing East and feet to the West.

What sort of sexual person are you?
Vata (air) people are tempted by variety more than other types. The should satisfy this craving for variation with new techniques and positions, not with new partners.

Pitta (fire) people also have roving eyes, but their principle urge is for intensity of experience and not variations. They have to be careful not to completely dominate a weaker partner, to permit their craving for intensity to mesmerise them into perversion.

Kapha (water) people are less likely to roam, and since sex is a good vigorous exercise for them, they can be encouraged to do it more often.

Question not answered. Therefore, I'm still thinking, "What does it mean when someone tells you you're good in bed?''. Indulge me if anyone can. Like to hear both from the male and female perspectives.

I'm off to slumber now. Sleep is vital. Sleep is good. Sleep is a pleasure in which I can no longer afford to waste. A certain someone who has gone blue told me, "Some food are better than Sex". I didn't quite agree with him. But then again, will I one day succumb and say instead that 'Sleep is better than Sex' soon?

Night people.