Think again of that thing you want the most and the things you do for it.

"Too often, the thing you want most is the one thing you can't have. Desire leaves us heartbroken, it wears us out. Desire can wreck your life. But as tough as wanting something can be, the people who suffer the most are those who don't know what they want."

 

Therefore...

Always know what you want. Always. It's either black or white. Don't go venturing into the grey areas, to where you know you don't belong just because you feel somewhat special. Truth of the matter here, everyone is born special. This makes you no different than others and you need to recognise this. Only a tiny fraction of us are born Mother Theresa extraordinary. However, like her we do have our place and individual purpose in this world. The difference lies in the level of impact we create. If it's meant to be, it will be and there's nothing that you or anyone can do to stop something that has been pre-determined by fate and destiny from happening.

 

Keep life simple. Whenever you reach the crossroads of choices, choose the less complicated route. Don't take it as a defeat. Sometimes we've got to give ourselves a break that we deserve. We're only human after all, with weaknesses and flaws and can't take on the world from one endless pursuit to another. You'll give yourself a pat on the back later on for the breathing space. Unless you're completely doubtless, ready and able to accept the consequences of the long and winding road.

 

Have a clear conscience. To secure peace of mind. Obtain your own closure if you can't get answers to things that are beyond your comprehension. As long as you've tried your best and have put whatever means laid in front of you to use with good intentions, don't murder yourself over situations you can't control. Over information you were not privy to. Ponder and fret you will but everything has its limit. An expiry date. Some things are just not worth wasting your prolonged time, feelings and thoughts over.

 

Certain desires like fantasies are not meant to be realised.

They are merely flights of the imagination, and solely exist to frolick and flutter like playful butterflies in the playground of our minds.