An Oxymoron

I never did like the idea of publishing my name on anything I write. Hey, ‘Anonymity is freedom’, right? Therefore, many have asked about my choice of identity on cyberspace. I thought it would speak for itself but every now and then people have asked me what it means. Why it?

It is general knowledge that we humans are not perfect even though some of us, sigh like mua here for instance would like to be so. We are all flawed in some way, one way or the other. It's part and parcel of our package. However, comfortingly God is fair and made every one of us unique, unlike anyone from the day we were conceived in our mother’s womb. We are all special in our very own little eccentricities. Our imperfections symbolize who we are. Just like a blemish on our face which we try to conceal. Unless we’re a pro at makeup tricks, we won’t be able to hide it effectively. However, even if we manage to play camouflage, it will still be noticeable to us...for we ourselves will know it’s there.

Accepting someone for who they are is one of the most important things in love. Don’t try and fit them into the mould of a person you would like them to be for that’s not who you fell in love with in the first place. Loving someone just the way they are is in my opinion, the key to truly and sincerely loving someone. This is the way it should be. Regardless of what the world sees, in your eyes and in your heart this person is to you, and for you...perfectly flawed...